Dating a man with bratty kids
Her question was: “Where are all the women who actually don’t like kids?I can’t be the only one.” She went on to say, “There seems to be a belief that not liking kids = bad person.” When I mentioned this to people, they comforted me by saying “Oh, just have them – you’ll feel different when they are your own…. Everyone spoke about how wonderful they are – sweet, cute, how everything is new to them, how it makes you appreciate life.
As I struggled to smile through the “pass the diaper” game while kids ran in and out of the room, I could see that I was the only one who was uncomfortable.
So if you haven’t read it yet, please do and come back here.
From this point forward, I’m going to assume you read and internalized everything from that article.
I wasn’t having that “oh aren’t they cute” feeling.
The feeling I got was, “no thanks, I think I’ll pass” and “how soon can I leave?