Online dating should i call him
I guarded against potential vulnerability by acting out of alignment with how I really felt.
In other words, I sent texts that I just wish I hadn't.
Instead of using it as a way to say hi or let you know he’s running late, it becomes a crutch for real relationship communication.
"I can imagine it'd create this constant fear and wondering and wanting more.The careful selection of punctuation marks (periods are often too serious, exclamations too enthused, no punctuation too lackadaisical), the waiting hours to reply to appear busy or cool or appropriately aloof, the excruciating dissection of -- and hanging on to -- each and every word -- is exhausting.And then of course there's the lack of communication altogether, the silence a breeding ground for making up truths that aren't true.Yes, it's hard to move beyond the ego trip and the push and shove of the dating world, the fear of rejection and hurt and some inevitable disappointment. The real issue is that texting is ubiquitous and it’s not going anywhere soon.